theflystyle Posted February 6, 2016 Share Posted February 6, 2016 Extremely sad to hear this. Will keep you and your family in our prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew888 Posted February 8, 2016 Author Share Posted February 8, 2016 I can no longer handle the expenses and it's getting much worse too quickly. I hope no one minds me posting this here. https://www.youcaring.com/andrew-brandon-and-alyssa-jones-516356 She is holding on but suspect only a few days more only. The kids have gotten used to visiting their Mom but when that eventuality hits it may be a very different story. I'm preparing as best I can to keep them close. I'm heading to the hospital now to say goodnight to her. The pain in unreal... [URL="http://legacygt.com/forums/vbpicgallery.php?do=view&g=1586"VbGallery/URL] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bretts05 Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 I'm sorry this happened to your family. I can't imagine how hard it must be. I'm not the best at inspirational words, but try to keep your head up and stay strong for your kids. I sent a small donation. Take care. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tide Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 Best to you, sorry to here. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tide Posted February 10, 2016 Share Posted February 10, 2016 Donated! https://www.youcaring.com/andrew-bra...a-jones-516356 Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jasejase Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 Im so sorry to hear man. We're here to help in any way we can! And, donated! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bosco Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 Donated. Stay Stock Stay Happy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fasemelta Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 I wish the best for you and your family at this tragic time. . . Another donation added Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Chris GTO TT Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 So sad, I cannot imagine losing my fiance Also donated. 2003 Baja 5MT 2016 Outback 2.5i Premium w/Eyesight Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sjxbrd Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 Donated. Stay strong! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew888 Posted February 11, 2016 Author Share Posted February 11, 2016 I'm not offended nor mad. Please don't take it that way, I'm just sharing... Everyone says stay strong but I'm dripping all over my keyboard right now. I used to be stronger than this but I realized that something like this can change you in so many ways. For me, I'm more patient, empathetic, and...soft-er? I mean I wouldn't have broken down before but now it's more easily triggered. I never thought this would happen, never. I had a bond with a woman that was deep. Love at first sight in the truest sense. My buddy just got out of the Air Force and called me to his girlfriends apartment to watch a movie. I entered the front door and as I walked past her room our eyes met and that was it. I was sitting on the floor with my back against the couch. We were in the living room waiting on her when she sat down next to me. My heart pounding so much I had no idea what movie we were watching nor cared. This from a guy that had a rep for dating around at the time (many years ago). Just a few years later we had a Catholic retreat just prior to getting married. At the end we all took a compatibility test. Father called us in to discuss our results. This is where they council you on your differences. His first words were "I'm a little disappointed". He thought we cheated. We could not have as we were separated. All Men on one room and Women in the other. Every checked answer matched and every written one said the same thing in our own words. His next comment was that for as long as he has been doing this he had never seen this before. We were soul mates and attached to each other for 25 years. So yea...this will change a guy. I'm trying to stay strong but fail 50% of the time. My kids are my everything and amazing. They would inspire you if you had a chance to meet them. Both are very strong in their faith and are doing better than I am. I don't know what to say, just thank you... [URL="http://legacygt.com/forums/vbpicgallery.php?do=view&g=1586"VbGallery/URL] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
GipsySpec.B Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 A loss is never easy, you've had far more sorrow than most and I'm so very sorry to hear about your wife. Having your kids there for you is certainly a blessing and I wouldn't say you're not strong Drew, your kids being the way they are is clearly a direct result of you and your wife's influence as strong, caring people. A few years ago I lost my sister very suddenly and the whole thing felt detached, fake, almost surreal and it wasn't until weeks later that while visiting my now wife did it struck me that she was gone. My wife is definitely the roots to my emotional state and we've been together a mere 5 years. to do 25 is an amazingly long amount of time. You're stronger than you give yourself credit for, it's okay to breakdown Drew you have two amazing kids to help you stand. Me and my family aren't very religious in the traditional sense but we're praying for you and your family, keeping you in out thoughts through this most difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
subiefan15 Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 As a newer member, just want to say sorry, prayers and thoughts are with you and your family. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mike07LGT Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 Sorry to hear this story... seems alot of people are going through similar hard times. I'll keep your family in my prayers. Sent a donation as well. Mike 03 WRB WRX (RIP) 04 JBP STI (sold) 07 DGM Legacy GT (RIP) 12 OBP STI (DD) Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JJBerk Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 So sorry for your loss. I hope you and the children will find peace in your memories in the difficult weeks ahead. Donated. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NORULZleggy Posted February 11, 2016 Share Posted February 11, 2016 Drew I am truly sorry to hear this man. The heart is a tricky thing, and I know this first hand from getting a heart transplant 3 years ago. I truly hope she come out of this. I will keep you in my prayers. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BoozeRS05 Posted February 12, 2016 Share Posted February 12, 2016 I just saw this and I'm floored, so sorry to hear Drew.. To have loved and lost is better than having never loved at all. EB's Subaru journal - 2005 LegacyGT Wagon & 2014 Forester FB25 (2008 specB - RIP) IG@legacygtliving Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew888 Posted February 12, 2016 Author Share Posted February 12, 2016 I am now on FB when I never was before...therapy. Checking in here now and then is also therapy. Thank you! I reread my post (37) and I'm too tired and it's just easier to cut/paste so you may see it elsewhere and thought to let you know first. I need easy right now and others could use the message. Take care [URL="http://legacygt.com/forums/vbpicgallery.php?do=view&g=1586"VbGallery/URL] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wpmarky Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Hey Drew, so sorry to see this news. I can't begin to understand what you're going through, we will also be praying for you and your family. Did you need help selling your old LGT parts? I'd be happy to help sell them with 100% of the funds going back to you. Wish I could do more to help from so far away, if there is anything else I can do let me know man. /donated Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Drew888 Posted February 14, 2016 Author Share Posted February 14, 2016 Although we only really met at one meet you have always been a good friend. Thank you. I'm a couple weeks away from getting the parts out for pics. I will though...soon enough. [URL="http://legacygt.com/forums/vbpicgallery.php?do=view&g=1586"VbGallery/URL] Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ktmrider Posted February 14, 2016 Share Posted February 14, 2016 Can't even begin to imagine this scenario, heart and prayers go out to you and the family.... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Gator GT Posted February 15, 2016 Share Posted February 15, 2016 I just saw this and am deeply saddened, mine and my family's condolences go out to you and your family! From one Catholic to another, you and your family have our prayers, and I will offer the next mass for you and your wife! Your strength in faith is an inspiration and a kick in the head to me to step up my faith walk with Jesus Christ. May the peace of God the Father, His Son, Lord Jesus Christ and The Holy Spirit blanket you and your family! In Christ, Love, Matt & family "If we are to guard against ignorance and remain free, it is the responsibility of every American to be informed." - T. Jefferson Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
HeubergerMotors Posted February 15, 2016 Share Posted February 15, 2016 Good luck in this difficult time Drew. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
alex0856 Posted February 16, 2016 Share Posted February 16, 2016 Hey Drew, we've never really talked here, but I stumbled on this thread via SBT's post on the home page. I wish I could offer prayers but I'm not a religious person. But know that I have been keeping your family in my thoughts. I just moved down here to OC, and I see you live in Fullerton. If there is anything you need, please do not hesitate to ask. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TSiWRX Posted February 16, 2016 Share Posted February 16, 2016 I don't often check the main page, so this is the first I'm reading of this...I'm at a loss for words. I am so deeply saddened, Drew, to read of your recent troubles and, of course, what's happened to your wife. You and yours will be in our thoughts and prayers. <-- I love Winky, my "periwinkle" (ABP) LGT! - Allen / Usual Suspect "DumboRAT" / One of the Three Stooges '16 Outback, '16 WRX, 7th Subaru Family Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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