Here's my three... (nearly) 10, (nearly) 7 and (just turned) 5.
this is their 2012 Christmas card picture - they went to London last year which is why that nonsense is all in the background. Their input into the design...
Pictures are all over the internet/facebook/girl scouts/softball websites anyway - I think this perceived fear over posting pics online is just a modern hype, people see your kids in public all the time which is a far more dangerous place to be.